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JUST MOVING ON-35


I face a lot of flack over my view on various issues.I enjoy it,afterall being different is a luxury!We all seek it and here I am getting it all for free.All right getting more serious now,and honestly sometimes I do get bogged down by it and some voice hidden deep within asks what if i'm wrong.What if my perspective is one dominated by paranoia or delusion,for that instance?I often don't take advices and hence there is seldom a case of someone having an influence on me at least visually!But what is there in life which is so complicated and about which people often accuse me of taking too lightly?I don't understand.
All right,life is not a bed of roses and we have to face a lot of difficulties but this is no excuse for crying over the mistakes done in the past!
Same is the case with people on the other side,the so called optimists.They'd often advise us to be cheerful,laugh out loud and stuff like that.Things are good for few days just before you understand the absurdity of it. I mean to say whether happiness or sadness,both are mental states and pass away almost effortlessly.We need not be fussing over it.But,we often trick ourselves into living between the extremes.Driven by emotions,any sad moment drives us to one extreme and life looks catastrophic while soon the too prized, happier moment drives us to the other extreme and suddenly life feels like being in the heaven.There is no-thing as the middle thing!In fact the concepts of heaven and hell itself have been derived by our habit of living in between the extremes.
No wonder we see emotional outbursts so common everywhere!People have not been taught how to handle emotions.I find a lot of people,much older that me making a mess of their lives just on the part of emotional mismanagement.Here we are living in such a state with so much of developmental talk all around and on the other hand we find such maniacs all around.Don't look around,a look in the mirror is enough!We have developed so much but when it comes to emotions we are nothing more than the kids.
Just being jubilant by getting a gift and the next moment crying because someone took away the little toy!We expect more from a mature individual,don't we?
Life teaches a lot of lessons and one of them is the realisation of hardship but if there is hardship,there is joy as well.All around us just a little glance is enough to make us understand the dualities existing here.If there is pain,there is pleasure,if there is light,there is darkness as well.......Now my point is what if instead of living between these dualities and getting entangled in the mess,we make it a goal to first understand then conceptualize and finally move over these differences in order to live an unperturbed life away from all this mess!Why not? I mean life is way too precious to waste crying in grief on one hand or partying all over on the other.l
We as humans have always faced problems and devised innovative ways to solve them and if we have, in the current day scenario,a problem which is caused by human behaviour and has the potential to take lives and destroy families,it will be solved by ourselves.So managing emotions is the key.....I was fed up with all this,living between the extremes I was never comfortable with myself until I found out a way to lead me out of this mess.
Now I live a life in which there are no huge expectations.I don't run after anything as of now.Just take whatever comes and focus my energy instead on the understanding of the world.Happiness or sadness whatever the state of mind,i don't get disturbed beyond my limit of self control and I am essentially pursuing a certain calmness in life.Of course it is hard to explain but can be best explained as the harmony between myself and others by realising the limits of discrimination,or I should say the harm of it.When there is nothing to fuss about,there is calmness isn't it?

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