It
is never advisable to speak ill of others for it is not only futile
but poisonous as well.We tend to display all our animal
potential,whenever we are not pleased by someone.Be it
shouting,making stupid gestures or even going to the extent of
beating up that person,all because we are not pleased by him!People
often ask me why I don't get angry and my usual reply is I look
within myself and impose certain checks so that things don't get out
of hand.
As
of now,I know the importance of cultivation of one's own behaviour
and its huge impact on the person itself and people around him/her.It
is not surprising thus,that if we are to change the situations or
persons around us,the first change needs to be done within
oneself.How many times we hear learnt men criticising others?I
believe such aversions are restricted to a definite level which may
be regarded as characteristics of the so called common man.Well,what
is the purpose of gaining all the knowledge?It is at first to become
a good man,which is arguably better than the common man of today and
then sit in calmness,isn't it?
People
are bothered or I should say entangled in their daily chores and seek
not to get out of it,is it wisdom to aspire to be entangled just like
them?Especially when I've seen the futility of it.Thankfully,nature
isn't monotonic and we have enough freedom to pursue the course we
want to.Now,as I look at all these usual bondings of family and
society I feel they are useful as long as they don't hamper the
freedom.Afterall,we have to take the best out of everything and the
rest must be buried!This is the way,we've moved until now,and this is
the way it'll be in the coming times.
All
through these years i've been aspiring to be like someone else and it
is something like my confession.Well,is is a flaw isn't it?And then
my inner mechanism detected it and then I got it
troubleshooted!How?Well,we don't need to become like someone else.we
are what we are and we are made perfect within our domain.Why don't
we put these inspirational people in our boots and then judge
ourselves!I don't think following someone leads us somewhere but of
course there is a need for some one to guide us.And it is not that
easy to find a good teacher who can be honest with his pupil,I
feel.These days it is all business and no devotion.So we need
teachers but not someone who is stupid.I mean a man who can't manage
his own life,how do we expect him to teach others?And then he is
supposed to gain respect!
I
believe one of the most prized possessions we have is respect,and we
should be very careful in extending respect to others.I mean of
course we should have an atmosphere of mutual respect everywhere as
each one of us has a right to live with dignity,so no problems
there.Real problem starts when we get out of the box to respect
someone unworthy of it.It's a pity when I see people do that.The
motive-just the usual one,get some favours!
One
common thing is though,that I'm mostly misunderstood.People around me
take me to be something else than what I'm internally and the fact
that my communication skills are not up to the mark only adds to
that.Some think I'm geek,some take me to be an introvert,some take me
to be a typical rude guy who doesn't know how to speak while some are
still in ambiguity.But its not like that i'm depressed with
it.Sometimes it is good to be misunderstood.People don't bother you
and there is no load of expectations from you!!!
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