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How to let go of all the attachments?Well,in our day to day life we are attached to so many things,then we all have a few persons towards whom we feel often endless amount of attachment.There have been enough texts written glorifying these attachments using lucrative words but at the end of it does it mean anything?As a dedicated follower of science I consider it my duty to question everything around me and look for convincing rational answers,and in this quest I often encounter concepts which although seemingly convincing are unreal,I feel.

I've failed to achieve total detachment but still I'm working towards it and have strong belief that I'll succeed soon.We all have embarked upon a journey which can often be compared to any journey we make so often.Life itself is a journey and I often compare it with a train journey.We often interact with fellow passengers,share jokes wit them,discuss politics even share phone numbers but how many passengers we remember after the journey?It's just because of our detached interaction back there we often don't cry when we take a leave at the destination.Why not use this concept in our life?I mean what use is of crying when we move on from one place to another?Further we move on from one life to another as well..So is it justified to cry if someone has terminated his/her journey?Not at all.In fact a detached application of oneself is needed in every walk of life and it is as hard a fact as it seems.

Yeah momentary pleasure often casts a cloud over our intellect but if even for a second we look beyond it,we can feel the reality as it is.Then pleasure does not seem like pleasure,pain does not feel like pain but still there is a feeling,an everlasting feeling of calmness within.I did not appreciate the importance of non attachment but once I used it on a trial basis,I did cling on to it and will never leave it ever in life.Our emotions weaken us.That is a fact,and attachment mixed up with emotions often creates chaos inside an individual which often manifests itself in brute forms.Thus we have savage beasts resulting out of human beings.

Non attachment has even lessened burden of formalities off my head as of now.I know things are not going to last forever so I don't waste time over them even unknowingly while if put another way,which is kind of opposite,I can enjoy every moment as it is no conditions applied.If it is not going to last forever,why fuss over it?Even people,we deal with a lot of individuals.We often do not know the majority of people we deal with daily.Yet there are a few for whom we go the distance...yeah everyone knows that.But then does that give us an excuse to dictate terms to those people?No nothing here can be taken for granted and if someone lets us take him/her for granted it is just a leaking pipe which needs to be fixed urgently.Similarly,if we let anyone take us for granted it is the same..

There are so many enjoyable things for us and each day we come across a lot of them but hte thing is that everything working here has a limit except one thing-the human desire.

Of course desire is glorified by some sections of the society today and we youngsters are often taught to burn ourselves in the fire of desire,guided by ambition etc.But this is totally harmful as is evident everywhere.C'mon look around us each one of us is dissatisfied and there is no uniform pattern for dissatisfaction.I mean is there a fixed parameter of income above which people must be satisfied and below it have a right to be dissatisfied?I've never heard of such limits.The point I wish to make is that there is no limit to human desires.People are never satisfied because satisfaction in itself is something hard to achieve.On one hand we are burning people with desires and on the other we are teaching them or rather ordering them to be satisfied!It is impossible.

I have a lot in my mind,to write about this issue and I can go on for pages but at the appropriate time it will come up too.For the time being I should apply brakes as I got a lot of work to do and grasp some concepts.Afterall,Physics is not my part time subject!

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