Skip to main content

FINDING A PURPOSE....

Whenever you feel like there is no purpose to life,that all you seek is eventually going to be wasted,everything you seek is nothing but an illusion and as you reach the destination of this journey known as life it turns out to be -DEATH.

By this I don't mean death is horrible or is something to be avoided,but when you don't see a purpose to life itself,it is all frustration. The more I know about life,the more pointless it seems. As a God denier,I don't have the support of some supreme deity. Although,I confess here that I seem to understand now,why more people follow God than who do not. People like me,either give up and say all this God denying was a delusion and follow some religion for the rest of their lives,and the others,keep on struggling.

When you do not have a shadow of religion over your head,life is definitely a struggle. But whether this struggle is worth it or not,is a matter of personal experience. 

I am too young to give up a search for truth without a God,so I don't lose hope. But I'd like to mention a broader issue in here. And it is definitely personal.

Being a Hindu Brahman by birth,I know very well the path to salvation taught in our scriptures but I don't feel convinced by the path(for the time being at least!). It is not that I'm into finding faults within Hinduism. In fact,I don't think it is correct for me to question a belief system without getting to the root of it. But of course,whether to follow it or not,is for me to decide,and I'm proud of the fact that Hinduism allows me to do that exactly. We are not bound by a dogma or by any rules,a failure to follow which,may result in harmful consequences.

Today,as I stand I think I won't have a difficulty admitting that at the moment I'm having a difficult time finding a purpose in my life. And as I think this,immediately this comes to my mind:

The Three Armies can be deprived of their commanding officer, but even a common man cannot be deprived of his purpose.
                                   
                                                                                                            ---Confucius,Analects

So you see,even a common man is not supposed to function without a purpose. One can understand the frustration I might be feeling if I don't find a purpose. In fact,I believe the single most contributing factor to negativity in one's life is this-lack of purpose. If even for an instance,one feels out of the place or undesired it happens to be the most embarrassing moment at that time. I don't think even the greatest of people could function with this kind of a feeling. Suddenly,the earth where we belong seems to be an alien land. The society we live in,becomes the very place we want to run from. Then of course we have hermits who leave everything and run away from this society far away in seclusion. But even though ,I believe I am a loner at heart,I don't think I have developed dispassion enough to run away from the society. Besides,at the moment if I leave everything it will be an act of cowardice but not renunciation.

Of late,I have been reading some material regarding our own Hindu belief system. But I think it is a shame that we Indians have to read about our own culture through someone sitting thousands of kilometers away writing in a foreign language,while we readily ridicule our own people following those very beliefs. All these years of slavery and ridicule have had a lot of contribution,I think. Also,the English education system,which has on the one hand helped our country gain a very significant position on the world stage has made sure that we Indians keep on poking fun at our past without gaining any knowledge what so ever.

The lack of purpose is a condition which I think every sane individual has to face,and I think it will have a positive aspect definitely. One of that,I think will be that when I find one,I'll latch onto it as it'd be something I discover for myself. I do not have to take it on belief.

The truth,if revealed through investigation,as opposed to belief will bring a lot of satisfaction. Finding your purpose in life is something of that sort.

There is no need for negativity although it seem unavoidable sometimes,and at that moment some deep contemplation is needed. I think,at that moment religion plays its part.
This is one of the places I find the need of a religion. And yes,I have found it out ll by myself. Besides,these days I have been attracted towards some Gods,and I think I am starting to like it. Whether I'll get as far away as to worshipping the deities,is for time to tell,but at the moment I see no harm in reading a bit of mythology. Apart from being an enjoyable experience,it will bring about a change too in otherwise,a very boring monotonous,colourless life I have been living for the past few months.

Comments

Popular posts from this blog

NAGALAND: FIRST IMPRESSIONS

Not too many people have Nagaland in their bucket list. Uncomfortable roads, poor transport system and a lot of corruption are a few factors which contribute to it. Added to it the stories of still active insurgency, Nagaland although an extremely beautiful hill state doesn’t manage to have a lot of tourism going on except for the Hornbill festival in December every year. But, my case is slightly different. Affinity towards the culture of the entire North east, plus a desire to visit not to tourist frequented places made Nagaland a definite must go. So, when I got time and saved some money, I immediately planned a trip to the beautiful hilly state with my girlfriend. The Nagaland express Since, th is was my second trip towards the hills of the North east, I was more confident and familiar with the sytem than the previous time. We booked a filght to Guwahati and from there we took a train to Dimapur aptly named : The ”Nagaland Express”. This...

FIRST TRIP TO THE NORTH EAST-MIZORAM

Around 7 years ago during the final year of my school, I read a book about the various tribes of the north East India. Already fascinated by a place so serene, yet unexplored and heard stories of the people inhabiting those lands, the book generated in me a desire to visit the places as soon as possible. The author of that book visited the entire North East as a part of his assignment for All India Radio (AIR) during the 1970s and the way he described those tribes and the places, a strong desire arose inside of me to visit these places and see for myself how beautiful that land is, how well mannered those people are! It is aptly called the 'unexplored paradise' as I discovered. But the idea materialized only in March, when financially empowered by a scholarship from ISRO, and constantly motivated by my best friend (who could not resist travel, and hence accompanied me!), I planned to visit Mizoram. Why Mizoram? There is a particular thing about the mizos, and if asked com...

TRIP TO HARIDWAR AND RISHIKESH

A trip to places like Haridwar and Rishikesh is always a source of peace,joy and spirituality and when we went to these places this month, it was no different.We had some free time and I along with my two other friends decided to visit Haridwar as well as Rishikesh for a short 4 day trip.As I had spent my childhood in a nearby town,naturally these places were well travelled by me . Day-1:Bus to Haridwar We got up early in the morning,at around 0445,hurriedly got dressed up,called each other and ran off to the ISBT at kashmiri gate to catch an early bus to Haridwar.I was extremely careful to catch the bus as early as possible because of the traffic at the border growing up a few hours later.We expected to catch the bus at around 0700,but as it always happens,we were delayed by around 30 minutes and managed to board the bus as 0730.It was a smooth journey,early in the morning a lot of fresh air poured in,later as it was not too hot,we enjoyed riding the bus in the bri...