MY THOUGHTS AND IDEAS...

While we are growing up,we often tend to imitate others either willingly or otherwise.Sometimes it helps us in a way that we often get out of bewilderment and tend to take up a generally accepted easy path.While I was a teenager there was a feeling of becoming inside of me as well.I too wanted to become like someone I admired.But as time passed by and as it happens with everyone,I realised it too was a childish desire to become like someone.We are here for ourselves. So being and becoming two different yet connected deeply with our personality come into play.Becoming is something we did in childhood and some of us still do childishly and being our selves is the one thing we do each day.This is not childish.How can it be?we have developed enough to look for our place in the society.We can handle the situations well,we can communicate properly.We don't hesitate anymore.We don't have to worry whenever we are out of the home for a night!What do these signify?...

Developing a viewpoint towards life is one of the key things we do in our lives.All of us whether rich or poor,whether powerful or powerless,whether famous or not have some sort of a point of view towards life.It is through this very point of view that we attach ourselves and then look at the world and probably try to describe it in best of terms.There comes a time when people do not agree with us.They have a difference which might seem fundamental in nature. I've had a lot of moments like these and I think the way I deal with it is usable for me.I do not clash with others' ideologies for it being futile as well a time consuming.There are bound to be differences between people.We have to appreciate it though.There has never been a moment when I forgot that.And I feel there is no need enforcing ourselves onto others as well.We have to be tolerant. My life although seemingly is at a standstill as I feel a void with no regular going to college.There a...

Almost one year has passed since I started the basic technique of mind control leading to the end of my problems,forever!First of all,I am by my very nature suited to this kind of philosophy.I am almost always full of humor,a source of positive energy and then the impermanence of things and events has been taught to me ever since I was a child. I've thus,found these two things to focus on and strengthen in order to succeed: A.Never lose the positive attitude. B.Always focus on the impermanence. These two tools have been most helpful as far as my progress on the spiritual path is concerned and well they are flawless!Although the Buddhist path requires me to fulfill other things as well .One of them is compassion for every living being.This too has been my nature.I don't harm any being intentionally.Although there are a few persons in front of whom,my compassion vanishes.I don't know but some of their actions have a distressing effect on me.I am more or less neutral as far a...

Actually,even when I take things lightly there are moments when I feel weakened owing to the circumstances.Then it is left up to the inspiration inside me,which I boost from time to time with a lot of study to pick me up. Now I have a habit to criticize almost everything,I don't like.I fail to understand what is wrong in that?Well,it is simple.I did not like it,fine.Someone or everyone may like it,I don't.There are movies which almost everyone has rejected and I pick it up.There are songs termed worst by everyone and yet I enjoy them.It is up to someone to decide what he likes and what he does not.But the thing is that the acts of other persons have started influencing my inner calm and this is a sign of worry.I never allow anyone to have an influence on me,other than those personally filtered by me.I am a self built person and nobody can inspire me until I allow him/her. These few days have been busy and I have not had an hour to think and sit down silently!But still I have m...